I’ve had something on my mind for weeks in regard to the whole “Twilight” phenomenon. Quite frankly I just don’t get it. I haven’t read any of the books, but I did watch the first “Twilight” movie to see what the big deal was and found it inane and dull. First of all I guess I don’t understand why so many Christian women are reading these books and watching these movies. I guess I don’t get why Christians can celebrate and support a book/movie which makes something/someone evil be the hero. Edward is still a demon, he is still evil and while he chooses not to take human life, that still does not make him the ideal hero or even a flawed hero that should be celebrated. And, to top that off, what it’s teaching young women is so off base! I mean a whole generation of young women are choosing sides…hmmm…is it “Team Edward” the vampire or should I choose “Team Jacob” and go with the Werewolves? They are choosing sides, but both are ultimately evil. I think I’ll choose “Team Jesus” thank you very much! These books/movies are also teaching young women a skewed view of love and romance. You know that little Bible school song “Be Careful Little Eyes What You See”? That really does apply in real life. What you watch, read, listen to, etc all that information goes into your brain and never leaves. Once you’ve read it, watched it or listened to it, it stays there. Sure you may not be able to recall it in it’s entirity, but it’s there somewhere in the back of you mind. We, as Christians must be careful what we let into our minds. I try to always apply this verse to things before I watch them, read them, listen to them, etc. “Finally, brethren, whatsoever things are honest, whatsoever things are just, whatsoever things are pure, whatsoever things are lovely, whatsoever things are of good report; if there be any virtue, and if there be any praise, think on these things.” –Philippians 4:8 I simply don’t think that the “Twilight” books and movies fit in with this verse. Neither do other popular “vampire” themed shows and books, such as “The Vampire Diaries”. No matter how well behaved they are, they are still evil. And yet, thousands of young girls and young women are all aflutter over them. They are putting these ultimately evil creatures up on pedistals and bowing down to them. They all want a guy like Edward, an evil and very flawed creature. They don’t want the nice, polite Christian young man, they want the dark and mysterious bad boy. Why is it that so many women are drawn to the bad boy, do they think they can save them like the heroine does in books? This is where this sort of fiction can be very dangerous, it tricks our minds into thinking that love and romance will be just like it is in the books. The woman with a heart of gold always saves the dark and dangerous hero. The sad fact is, that most of the time this is not the case. As Christians, we should look for mates who exhibit Christ-like attitude and actions. I’ve seen too many cases of where women marry a bad boy thinking they can save them, but instead it ends in divorce, or worse yet, a life long abusive relationship. We can not save the bad boys, only Christ can do that. It’s a choice they have to make and no amount of a woman trying to change them will do it. Sure, pray for them, but as a Christian you shouldn’t get romatically involved with them. Prayer does amazing things and I’ve seen it save people who I thought were totally lost and a hopeless case. As badly as you may want to, you can’t “love” a person into making the choice. Romance is nice, but the romance in books is often over the top and unrealistic and as such it can mislead a woman into thinking that this sort of romance is the norm. Romance is not the by-all-end-all of a good relationship as it’s portrayed in books and movies. I haven’t been married to my husband for nearly 20 years just because of romance. I’ve been married to him for nearly 20 years because of respect, companionship, a bit of stubborness and a lot of love…my husand is not the hearts and flowers type. Yet, everyday, he shows me in some little action or deed that he loves me and respects me. He values my opinion and my companionship.
Here are a couple of good articles to read in regards to the whole “Twilight” phenomenon, written from a Christian perspective. I hope you’ll read them and consider what they have to say.
Stepping down from my soap box now…