I’m not the best house keeper. I’m working on it and have much improved in over 10 years of marriage, but I’m still learning and disciplining myself on making sure that everything HAS a place, let alone keeping everything IN its place. The kitchen is where I spend most of my time, or at least a good portion of it, and may be the furthest along in my quest for order in my home, but next to the other ladies who contribute here I am just beginning! I love that being here with them means I can not only contribute, but learn and grow in this area as well.
That said, one thing I’ve become pretty good at doing is keeping our grocery bill down. I’ve become good enough at this that not only both of my sisters, but also my own mother have all called for my help in better planning their grocery trips when the month’s budget is going to be more crunched than usual for whatever reason. I’ll tell you what, that speaks to me! I feel it’s the ultimate compliment, for my mother to call and ask my advice or opinion on something. She taught me so much and continues to be my spiritual mother, that her calling or seeking my thoughts on anything just really makes me feel like I must know my stuff in that area.
So what is it about my grocery shopping that helps the budget?
Mostly it’s about meal planning. I discovered several years ago that I spend less money when I go to the store with a list. I also make less trips to the grocery store if I already have everything I need for a given meal, rather than deciding that I have “most” of the things to make something but still lack this ingredient or that. Inevitably, if I go back to the store, I get more than just those one or two ingredients and end up blowing my grocery budget for the week or month.
Having mentioned both weekly and monthly budgets, I want to say that I’ve done this plan both ways. When we lived in the big middle of a large city, I planned and shopped weekly. Now that we’re back out in the middle of nowhere, it makes more sense for us to plan and shop monthly. There is a little store in our town where I can get replenishables like bread and milk, but for the most of my shopping I go once monthly to the big chains in the city. You can do it either way; they both work wonderfully and I may even suggest – if stores are close to you – that for a beginner doing it weekly is a good way to learn. Just be sure to stick to the plan of only going to the store that once in a week! Get all the bread and milk you’ll need for a single week; you shouldn’t have to worry about it going bad that quickly.
The first thing I do is go through my cabinets, pantry, refrigerator, and freezer(s) and see what I already have. For the first several times, it’s good to write down what’s there just so it congeals better in my mind. Don’t forget to put down how much of each item there is, as well. I might still have on hand a can of ranch style beans, but if I need TWO cans to finish my meal then I need to know that I still need one more can. On any given pantry sweep, I might have plenty of flour, a little rice, a couple of cans of green beans, a can of tomato sauce, several cans of cream soup, and whatever. I might also still have a roast in the freezer, a bag of frozen broccoli, or a container of yogurt that needs to be eaten up soon. Write it down!
I then take that list and think of the meals which can be made from those ingredients. For instance, with the creamed soup, rice, and broccoli I have almost a complete meal; I just need to add some meat, so begins my third list – what I lack of any meals I can make from what I already have.
As I make my grocery list, more meal ideas transpire. If I’m going to get chicken to go with my rice meal, it’s often cheaper to buy a larger package that will do for two or three meals. The same goes if I need to purchase potatoes as an ingredient for a meal that I have most things for; a bag of potatoes will do another couple of meals as well. Thinking about my purchases and making the economical choice of the larger packages (when it is the more frugal option, of course!) helps keep me from wasting extras as well as using up what is older first. If I’m going to buy a big box of Bisquick for pancakes, I might not buy refrigerated biscuits this month so I can use what I have. I also might google some recipes (I personally have a Bisquick cookbook, and it has been handy in a crunch more than once) and find an easy pie recipe to use it with as well.
I often have people ask me about coupons. I don’t do much couponing at all. I do some; we are blessed in that one of the major stores nearby has in-store coupons as well as weekly meal deal specials. Often, the coupons are for purchasing the major brand of something and receiving the store brand item for free. Sometimes it is money off, or money off when purchasing multiples. The meal deals are often great values; I can purchase the main meat and get almost everything I need for the meal to go with it.
Besides the in-store coupons, I don’t use a lot of newspaper or manufacturer coupons. I just haven’t found them to save me money in most cases. The coupons are usually for national brand items, and even with cents-off they are usually still more expensive than purchasing the store brand. This isn’t always true, but because of how rare I’ve found the exceptions to be, I haven’t found couponing worth my time. I know that there are others that have and really enjoy it, but even having retried with coupons recently I just can’t make it add up with savings over store brand items. For me, for most items, coupons are only a time-sucking black hole that I usually try to avoid.
As my meal plan comes together, I count out how many meals I’ll need to fix before my next shopping trip. If I’m planning for a week’s eating, that would be 14 meals – 2 meals each day for a week. Usually in the course of a week we’ll eat at church on Wednesday evenings, sometimes at my mom’s or mother-in-law’s for Sunday lunch, and often do leftovers on Sunday evening. That’s immediately 3 meals I don’ t have to plan, so I’m looking at 11 meals including 6 lunches and 5 dinners. I take into consideration depending on if my husband is going to be home for lunch and for which meals can be quick and easy. I also consider our schedule, if we’re going to have a full day of activity and will need a hearty meal on a specific night, or if we’ll have a busy day and need to do something like frozen pizza once. I also like to include a variety of the types of meats we eat each week; if we eat nothing but chicken for 4 days, we’re going to be very tired of chicken!
Some of these things are going to be family specific, but I hope that I have given you some ideas on how to go about organizing your meal plans so you can grocery shop most effectively! I’m all about saving money wherever I can, and food doesn’t have to be expensive! Have fun, and let me know how you do with your next grocery trip!